A photo of the sun setting over Kopan while I was visiting Simon and Brendan at their home stay

Where our last post left off, we were enjoying the first few days in Kathmandu and adjusting to a culture simultaneously similar and disparate to our own at home.

After leaving the Monumental Paradise, our hostel in downtown Kathmandu, we visited two temples on the way to Kopan, a suburb where our first home stay took place.

The first temple, Pashupatinath, is a sacred Hindu site that sits alongside the Bagmati river.

A small portion of Pashupatinath from the hilltop

It is common – a daily occurrence – for funerals to take place at the temple, and bodies are cremated in the open air on pyres lining the river. In our short visit we witnessed an ambulance rushing in a body wrapped in cloth, and the subsequent placement on the pyre, various blessings and ceremonies, and the lighting of the fire beneath the deceased. Several more followed, and at some points several fires were burning at once.

Mia overlooking an intense and thought-provoking scene, as smoke rises from the pyres

An initially shocking and overall very powerful experience, the colorful, crowded, and public nature of death on the banks of the Bagmati brings into question our traditional western attitudes toward death – or rather our pretense that death is taboo, unnatural, and ought not to be accepted or talked about.

The next place we visited was Boudhanath Stupa, a massive mandala-shaped Buddhist temple (one of the largest both in Nepal and in the world). Similar to the Monkey Temple, prayer flags stretch across the sky above the Stupa. Shops and cafes form a circle around the temple, and we had a snack on a rooftop with a beautiful view of the golden peak and the hundreds of prayer flags.

Boudhanath Stupa

We arrived in Kopan that evening, just in time to have dinner with our host families; Will and I stayed with Binita, a teacher at the local school where we worked, and her two parents, her brother, and her brothers wife. They showed us immense kindness, welcoming us into their home, showing us around the village, and making sure we always had PLENTY to eat – it’s customary in Nepal to keep heaping more and more food onto your plate until you feel like you’re going to pop. As our local guide, program facilitator, and friend Gokul likes to say, “In Nepal too much is just enough”. Gokul has accompanied us on a number of adventures, and we owe him immeasurable gratitude for helping us facilitate our home stays and our projects at the school. He will also be helping lead our trek to Annapurna base camp. In these photos, Gokul challenged me to a tickle fight, only to find out the hard way that I am the ultimate tickle fighter. Let that be known.

We spent our days at the local school, working on various projects – we painted several walls with a clean coat of yellow paint, hauled rocks for use in a retaining wall, and painted a mural of a world map on the side of the meeting hall.

hard at work! unless you’re Hugh I guess

Hayden mixing yellow for the walls
Marco beginning work on what would become our mural
The oceans are filled and Asia is beginning to take shape!
Asia is big

hot pink Greenland? Sure thing
the final product!

“Rock Squad” doing its thang
big rock, bigger Mike

The community at the school was remarkably warm and kind, welcoming us with a program in their meeting hall and blessing us with tikka (red marks on the forehead) and scarves. When we left, they held another program, and a number of students prepared songs and dances which they performed for us. We sang Lean On Me in return, and afterward, they played music and everyone danced together for almost an hour.

One morning we visited the Kopan Monastery, one of the oldest in the area, and essentially the origin of western Buddhism as we know it – in the mid to late 20th century, Kathmandu was a breeding ground for hippie culture and the monks at Kopan Monastery began to teach classes and workshops on Buddhism to westerners – many of whom took these ideas back to the States or to other countries.

An inside look at Kopan Monastery
The team outside of the monastery with our guide, Gokul, in the middle

On Saturday, we had a free day with our host families. Will and I went back to Boudhanath Stupa and traveled to a nearby national park for a hike; other families went out for meals, walked to various monasteries, went to concerts in town, and more.

On Sunday, we celebrated Charlotte’s 19th!

Overall, I think that I speak for most of the group when I say that the home stays were great learning experiences, and many in the group formed strong bonds with their host families. It was hard to leave, but we’re looking forward to the trek!

In addition to forming bonds with our families, the group has been getting closer and closer, and already feels like a family in itself.

A few of us were sitting on the road one afternoon in Kopan sipping mango juice after a long day at the school, and I remarked to Marco how it seemed that the past two and a half weeks had passed unbelievably quickly. He gave me a weird look and told me we had only been in Nepal for 7 or 8 days, which it took me an embarrassingly long time to believe; I think that both the nature of the group and the nature of such intense travel has made it feel like we’ve known each other forever. I can’t imagine a better group, and I think most of us share the sentiment.

I’ve attached photos of everyone in the group with their host families, as well as some miscellaneous moments. We miss you all but are so very happy to be here 🙂


Jules and Marco, with their family
Meghan and Charlotte, with their family
Annie and Mia, with their family
Hugh and Elliott, with their family
Brendan and Simon, with their family
Lauren and Hayden, with their family
Will and myself, with our host family
Brendan and Jules being goofy with some goofy goofs
Hugh and Simon make some friends
Mike and his host brother being cool cats
Meghan, Hayden and Hugh making some more friends
Brendan, Annie, Marco, and Lauren at the sight of our lunch one afternoon
Marco and Jules with their host brother at the school’s goodbye program
Will and Mike practicing “Lean On Me”, which we sang as a group to say goodbye to the school
Meghan playing “heads up” with a class group
Teaching a class

Marco helping his host grandmother

Performing at farewell ceremony at the school.
Hayden teaches a class.
Charlotte helping her host mother in the kitchen.

a bye bye selfie on our last afternoon at the school

3 thoughts on “Kopan!

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  1. Great pictures! Looks like everyone’s having fun, making new friends and doing great work!!! Way to go and thanks for sharing!


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